Can Love be Visualized?

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PERFECT MATCH 2026

In 2026, we received 3,458 valid responses. Thank you all for filling out the survey and helping spread love at Cornell! Here is a look at some of the results.

surveys completed
3,458
matches made
10,120
mutual crushes
14
pokes sent to matches
2,408

53% of you say the biggest red flag is someone who sees you in public and pretends not to.

Biggest red flag?
  • Sees you in public and pretends not to
    53%
    1,846 of 3,458 people
  • Mentions their ex on the first date
    18%
    615 of 3,458 people
  • Forgets to introduce you to friends
    11%
    382 of 3,458 people
  • Only texts after 11 PM
    11%
    365 of 3,458 people
  • Disappears during prelim week
    7%
    250 of 3,458 people

51% of you get the ick from "I don't really believe in labels."

Which sentence would give you the ick immediately?
  • I don't really believe in labels
    51%
    1,759 of 3,458 people
  • Let's move our date, I have a coffee chat
    30%
    1,050 of 3,458 people
  • I can't wait to get out of here
    12%
    399 of 3,458 people
  • I'm just really busy this week with prelims
    7%
    250 of 3,458 people

44% of you say performance clubs are the biggest green flag.

44% of project team members picked project teams. 23% of everyone else did.

What club is the biggest green flag?
  • Performance club (dance, a cappella)
    44%
    1,513 of 3,458 people
  • Engineering project team
    28%
    976 of 3,458 people
  • Business club or frat
    15%
    527 of 3,458 people
  • Greek life
    7%
    259 of 3,458 people
  • Perfect Match team
    5%
    183 of 3,458 people

45% of you say political differences are a deal breaker.

What is a deal breaker for you?
  • Difference in political views
    45%
    1,568 of 3,458 people
  • Long distance
    27%
    937 of 3,458 people
  • Watches porn
    25%
    850 of 3,458 people
  • Number of intimate partners
    24%
    846 of 3,458 people
  • Height
    22%
    775 of 3,458 people
  • Being financially broke
    22%
    755 of 3,458 people
  • Fitness level
    22%
    747 of 3,458 people
  • Difference in religious views
    16%
    567 of 3,458 people
  • Difference in social habits
    15%
    526 of 3,458 people
  • None of these
    14%
    470 of 3,458 people

Participants could choose more than one.

68% of men say they pay on the first date.

53% of women say their date does.

Who pays on the first date?
MenWomen
  • I do
    68%
    3%
    Men: 910 of 1,345 peopleWomen: 51 of 2,037 people
  • My date does
    2%
    53%
    Men: 21 of 1,345 peopleWomen: 1,088 of 2,037 people
  • We split
    10%
    23%
    Men: 133 of 1,345 peopleWomen: 466 of 2,037 people
  • It doesn't matter
    21%
    21%
    Men: 281 of 1,345 peopleWomen: 432 of 2,037 people

27% of you show affection through acts of service.

Only 14% like to receive it that way.

How do you like to receive affection, and how do you show it?
ReceiveShow
  • Quality time
    51%
    44%
    Receive: 1,758 of 3,458 peopleShow: 1,506 of 3,458 people
  • Physical touch
    18%
    16%
    Receive: 634 of 3,458 peopleShow: 536 of 3,458 people
  • Acts of service
    14%
    27%
    Receive: 491 of 3,458 peopleShow: 932 of 3,458 people
  • Words of affirmation
    9%
    7%
    Receive: 305 of 3,458 peopleShow: 236 of 3,458 people
  • Receiving gifts
    2%
    3%
    Receive: 73 of 3,458 peopleShow: 101 of 3,458 people

46% gave the same answer to both questions.

35% of you say enemies to lovers is your favorite romance trope.

What's your favorite romance trope?
  • Enemies to lovers
    35%
    1,214 of 3,458 people
  • Childhood friends to lovers
    33%
    1,133 of 3,458 people
  • Vanilla romance
    15%
    508 of 3,458 people
  • Fake dating
    13%
    450 of 3,458 people
  • Love triangle
    3%
    110 of 3,458 people
  • Step siblings
    1%
    43 of 3,458 people

35% of you have never dated.

How did your last relationship go?
  • We broke up because of long-term incompatibility
    35%
    1,207 of 3,458 people
  • I've never dated
    35%
    1,204 of 3,458 people
  • It wasn't that deep
    26%
    911 of 3,458 people
  • We hate each other
    4%
    136 of 3,458 people

Percentages are rounded. Answers chosen by fewer than 10 participants are not shown. Participants who gave their gender as non-binary individual or other are not included in comparisons by gender due to a small sample size.

FAQ's about User Privacy

Are my survey responses visible to others?

Absolutely not! All user data collected from our surveys is anonymized, and then privately stored. Only your name and provided contact information is shared, and that is only with your matches.

Can I be identified from these statistics?

Preserving the privacy of our participants is our utmost concern and is rooted behind every decision made in crafting these visualizations. We have taken several measures to remove any identifiable characteristics from the data we have collected, and the resulting datasets are randomly shuffled.

How are these visualizations generated?

These visualizations were generated using the ApexCharts and d3 JavaScript libraries.

Is my data sold to third-party advertisers?

Absolutely not! All of your data is stored privately and will not be viewed by any third party.

What happens to my data?

Your data is safe with us! We will never share your data with a third party advertisers, and we will only interact with your information as needed to resolve user issues. We may collect anonymous statistics to improve our algorithm, but your identity will always be separated from such reports.

Anonymized statistics are published each year on our website and provided to media and student groups for publications. In the past, these are included Cornell Daily Sun, Big Red Heads, Cornell Chronicle, etc.

For media requests, please reach out at perfectmatch@cornell.edu.

Who can I contact if I have a privacy concern?

We greatly encourage you to reach out to us with any questions or concerns that you may have regarding data privacy. In fact, feedback from the Cornell community already has and will continue to be used in to improve our algorithm and measures to protect privacy. We can be reached at perfectmatch@cornell.edu.